I walk to the minivan. I sit in the driver’s seat. I do not turn the key.
The secret of the conference is that
Now go sign up for that time slot. And bring a donut for the teacher. She needs one just as much as you do. mama’s secret parent teacher conference
This is the secret heart of the conference. I don’t actually care if he knows long division. He has a calculator on his iPad. I care if he ate lunch alone. I care if he shared the glue sticks. I walk to the minivan
This is the secret moment. That first handshake. Is it firm? Does she look me in the eye? Or does she glance nervously at the stack of phonics flashcards? The secret of the conference is that Now
So the next time you get that email, take a breath. You are not on trial. You are just gathering intel. You are the expert on your child. The teacher is the expert on the classroom. Together, you’re an unstoppable (if slightly tired) team.