The Ideal Father Game -
It’s called The Ideal Father Game .
If the problem is that Dad wasn’t good enough , then the solution is a better Dad . That keeps hope alive. But if the truth is that Dad was who he was, and that hurt , then we have to face a harder task: healing without him. The game gives us an illusion of control. If we just analyze enough, compare enough, feel angry enough, maybe reality will bend. the ideal father game
And that’s not a game. That’s freedom. Have you caught yourself playing this game? The first step isn’t shame—it’s recognition. And you’ve just taken it. It’s called The Ideal Father Game